http://www.elephantsatwork.com/improving-relationships/what-it-means-when-someone-hurts-you/ Thought leadership on mastering your career and boss Wed, 08 Sep 2010 11:40:22 -0400 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://www.elephantsatwork.com/improving-relationships/what-it-means-when-someone-hurts-you/comment-page-1/#comment-215 HBDI: Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:26:31 +0000 http://www.elephantsatwork.com/?p=2117#comment-215 <!--%kramer-ref-pre%-->[...] 2/1/2010- Is someone hurting you? [...]<!--%kramer-ref-post%--> [...] 2/1/2010- Is someone hurting you? [...]

]]> http://www.elephantsatwork.com/improving-relationships/what-it-means-when-someone-hurts-you/comment-page-1/#comment-211 Michele Roberts Tue, 02 Feb 2010 18:29:41 +0000 http://www.elephantsatwork.com/?p=2117#comment-211 It is true that some people are very cold and do not even think about whether or not they hurt others. Does no one remember the Golden Rule? “Treat others as though you want to be treated.” However, in today's society, it seems like the work place, school and community groups have become more like a war zone, "Kill or be killed." The worst cases seem to be when a long-term friend betrays you, an associate whom you’ve helped in their position steals your idea or a family member rips you to shreds. I believe that the cruelest, most evil people of them all is when a spouse whom you have given many faithful years to decides he/she wants someone else or just decides that “it’s over” and takes the bank account with him/her. I believe what my mama says, “You reap what you sow, you reap more than you sow and you reap later than you sow.” It is true that some people are very cold and do not even think about whether or not they hurt others. Does no one remember the Golden Rule? “Treat others as though you want to be treated.” However, in today’s society, it seems like the work place, school and community groups have become more like a war zone, “Kill or be killed.” The worst cases seem to be when a long-term friend betrays you, an associate whom you’ve helped in their position steals your idea or a family member rips you to shreds. I believe that the cruelest, most evil people of them all is when a spouse whom you have given many faithful years to decides he/she wants someone else or just decides that “it’s over” and takes the bank account with him/her. I believe what my mama says, “You reap what you sow, you reap more than you sow and you reap later than you sow.”

]]>